Even if you are not a basketball fan; Coach Wooden's life lessons will help steer you through the stormy waters of life and relationships.
John Robert Wooden was an All-American basketball player, coach,
and teacher, and is the winning-est coach of all time. He won ten NCAA national
championships in a 12-year period as head coach at UCLA, including a record
seven in a row.
Most Important Role Models & Teachers
When John Wooden was 8 years old, he and his older brother, and his parents, Joshua “Hugh” Wooden and Roxie Rothrock Wooden moved to a farm in Centerton, Indiana. Later, two younger brothers were born. Coach Wooden spoke of the gentle and loving way his parents interacted and the fact that his father’s favorite Abraham Lincoln quote was, “The best thing a father can do for his children is to love their mother.”
When John Wooden was 8 years old, he and his older brother, and his parents, Joshua “Hugh” Wooden and Roxie Rothrock Wooden moved to a farm in Centerton, Indiana. Later, two younger brothers were born. Coach Wooden spoke of the gentle and loving way his parents interacted and the fact that his father’s favorite Abraham Lincoln quote was, “The best thing a father can do for his children is to love their mother.”
Wooden’s didn’t have much money during John’s childhood, “We had
no electricity, plumbing or conveniences, and for entertainment Dad read books
to us in the evening by the light of a coal-oil lamp… For my brothers and me,
growing up on that little farm in Centerton was almost perfect.”… It was “a
hard good life.” (“My Personal Best” by John Wooden & Steve
Jamison)
John’s mother, Roxie, made all their clothes, washed them by
hand, and cooked all their meals from the products they grew on the farm. When
the Wooden boys expressed a desire to play basketball, and didn’t
have the money to purchase one; Roxie created basketballs for her sons by
stitching socks together and filling them with old rags. John’s father, Hugh,
made a basket for his sons from knocking out the bottom of a tomato basket and
nailing “it to the hayloft in the barn.” (“My Personal Best” by
John Wooden & Steve Jamison)
Coach Wooden taught life skills needed for a successful life to
his students, coaches, family members, and others for over 70 years. He
developed his “Pyramid of Success” over a 14 year period, 1934- 1948 by
identifying 25 behaviors he believed were necessary to achieve his idea of
success.
Hugh and Roxie Wooden modeled the behavior they wanted to show
their children. They had a long and loving marriage. They were married for 45
years until Hugh Wooden died. John Wooden and his wife Nell Wooden had a loving
happy marriage also. They were married for 53 years until Nell died. Coach
Wooden continued to write his wife love letters every month after her death.
Coach Wooden said, “I can just see my dad as I see you, if I
close my eyes. By the shores of Gitche Gumee, / by the shining
Big-Sea-Water, / stood the wigwam of Nokomis, / daughter of the moon
Nokomis… Upon completing the verse by Longfellow, Wooden opened his
eyes. “We had no electricity, no running water.”
Coach Wooden said, “My Father, Hugh Wooden, tried to get his
ideas across, maybe not in so many words, but by action. He walked it.”
“Hugh didn’t lecture his boys so much as he sprinkled seeds
along their paths.” (“Wooden: A Coaches Life” by Seth Davis)
Values for a Successful Life
“When John graduated from grade school” his father
gave him a small hand written card with his “7 Things to Do” and his “Two Sets
of 3” with a short poem by Reverend Henry Van Dyke and a two dollar bill.
Joshua “Hugh” Wooden wanted to guide his sons by giving them a “moral compass
and a powerful foundation”. Coach Wooden kept it in his wallet to read it.
These words he lived by for his 99 years on earth. These were Coach Wooden’s
“core principles” of his life, which he shared with his students, coaches,
family, and others for over eight decades.
Discipline the Key to Success
On the Wooden farm, John Wooden learned “the habits of
discipline and hard work.” Farm chores and studying were a priority in the
Wooden household.
Joshua Hugh Wooden’s “7 Things to Do” later Coach Wooden called it his “7 Point Creed”.
1) “Be true to yourself.”
2) “Help others.”
3) “Make each day your masterpiece.”
4) “Drink deeply from good books, especially the Bible.”
5) “Make friendship a fine art.”
6) “Build a shelter against a rainy day.”
7) “Pray for guidance and count and give thanks for your
blessings every day.”
Coach John Wooden’s parents, Hugh and Roxy Wooden were his most
important teachers and role models. They showed him by example how to have a
loving home, to respect others, how to work hard with enthusiasm, and gave him
a moral compass to live by.
Coach Wooden said, “Success is peace of mind attained
only through self-satisfaction in knowing you made the
effort to do the best of which you are capable.”
Coach Wooden’s first cornerstone of his “Pyramid of Success” is
“Industriousness”. He says, “There is no substitute for work. Worthwhile results
come from hard work and careful planning.”
The second cornerstone of Coach’s “Pyramid of Success is
“Enthusiasm”. Coach Wooden says, “Having enjoyment and love for your task, job,
or profession”. When we enjoy and love what we are doing, we work harder with
more energy, are more focused and productive working with enthusiasm.
Coach Wooden’s father Joshua “Hugh” Wooden’s “7 Point Creed” and
“Two Sets of Three” are words of timeless wisdom for you to live by just like
Coach Wooden, his family, his students, coaches, and others have for over
70 years.
Our next blog in our series on Coach John Wooden’s
philosophies and teaching, will focus on “Adversity” and his "Pyramid for
Success".
Madeline Frank, Ph.D., DTM is an award winning teacher,
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